You probably know that matchmaking is very popular nowadays. Most of online dating sites say they provide this service. But what is matchmaking itself and who can provide this service, what kind of specialist can really help you to find your match?! In some words, matchmaking is the process of matching two or more people together, usually for the purpose of marriage made by professional psychologist – specialist in interpersonal relationships. This is just the best way to find person, who will match your requirements and wishes.
Who can be matchmaker? Matchmakers must be professionals! That means that they must have higher education with degree in psychology (not just certificates of short-time correspondence courses, but real diplomas with years of studying!) and experience in this field, know well the psychology of personality, social psychology, mediation and dating, understand interpersonal aspects of virtual communication, psychology of international relationships and marriages.
Who can use matchmaking service nowadays – all lonely people, who are ready to find life partner and want to create family but need some help and can't find partner for a long time. There is a stereotype that matchmaking is used mostly by businessmen but it doesn't matter who you are. If you are lonely, want change your life and don't know how – use matchmaking, but use it clever!
What should I do to use matchmaking service? All you need to use this service is your true wish to find life partner, serious intention and active approach. Professional matchmaker will help you define your criteria of search, made good introduction, fix your stereotypes and fears about dates, international cultural differences etc.
Somebody can call matchmaking as personal training, dating coaching too. But I would not recommend mix matchmaking and dating coaching during this process with pick-up, hook-up courses)) there is nothing in common with matchmaking! I am not going to teach my clients methods of seduction or pick-up techniques) I am going to help them understand themselves and their wishes, aims in relations and define their criteria of search. I am going to help with organization of meeting, providing any kind of psychological support on all levels of communication) that is my job! I interview all clients personally, test them, and complete their profile information. I don't offer use computer programs as most of big matchmaking dating sites, I work personally with client, giving the best matchmaking service and guideline. I am against mass market approach in such an intimate and personal thing as life partner search!
Only Real communication can give Real results! I am introducing not mass market kind of modern computer or recruitment match-making, but real old-fashioned kind of matchmaking, where personal communication is a key! I don't have huge catalogues of clients, because I am not making huge money on this business, I am working personally on result for each client using my knowledge’s, skills and experience. I have no age-limits, no other limits) If you are serious and your search is mature – you are welcome)
As for aim of matchmaking – I see only one, at least in my field and this is relations) real dates, relations and marriages. I offer you Real Matchmaking service here and now!
Naina, matchaker, dating coach, psychologist of RealdateStudio